I don't know about you but this past Gemini full moon had a major impact on me. I'm a Gemini sun so this one really knocked me on my ass. One of the things I found myself reflecting on was needing to be honest in my desires and what is or isn't working. This isn't about getting exactly about what you want all of the time. This is about voicing to yourself what you actually want in life and recognizing where adjustments can be made to live a fulfilling life to the best of your ability.
The question to ask yourself is...do you even know what you want to begin with? It's going to be pretty difficult to lead a fulfilling life if you don't know. It's important to sit with yourself and figure that out. Avoid worrying about societal expectations or even the expectations from loved ones.
After you've made your list, really look at it.
- likes
- dislikes
- where are you with what you want?
- do you find yourself going back and forth on it in order to make others happy?
- do you have non-negotiables?
- are there things where you're ok to compromise on?
Now ask yourself these questions
- How does your list make you feel?
- Are you finding yourself changing things around because you think you'll disappoint someone?
- Do you avoid starting on something because it seems too hard or you don't know where to start?
Any time you go back and change your initial answer this means you have more reflecting to do. There could be some self-love work that needs to be done. Theres no one else that knows what you want more than you so don't allow limiting thoughts tell you otherwise.